The public will always be fascinated by US presidents' romantic relationships. While Donald Trump's one-night fling with porn star Stormy Daniels has garnered numerous column inches, Bill Clinton's affair with his former intern Monica Lewinsky has inspired dozens of documentaries and TV series. With rumors that his 32-year marriage to Michelle Obama is in jeopardy, it's now Barack Obama's turn to be scrutinized. The former president and first lady are one of the great power couples and portray a united front, so despite ups and downs over the years, things have generally seemed to be tight.Therefore, the fact that they have recently attended major events solo has sparked questions and unearthed some outlandish rumours from the gutters of tabloid gossip, including the bizarre theory that former president Obama was linked with Hollywood star Jennifer Aniston. Whatâs the reason for all this furore and how much of it should be taken seriously?Rumours began to circulate that Barack and Michelle Obama were drifting apart after Mr Obama attended former president Jimmy Carterâs state funeral without his wife on January 9th. All five living presidents and their partners were there, except Michelle, whose advisers told CNN that she had a scheduling conflict and was in Hawaii on an extended holiday.Days later, the Obamasâ office released a statement saying that Michelle would be absent from another major political event: Donald Trumpâs inauguration. They did not provide a reason. "Former President Barack Obama is confirmed to attend the 60th Inaugural Ceremonies. Former First Lady Michelle Obama will not attend the upcoming inauguration," the statement read. This marks a break from tradition, although Donald and Melania Trump did not attend Joe Bidenâs inauguration in 2021.The explanation for this could be as simple as the fact that Michelle Obama has long expressed her distaste for President Trump. At a campaign rally for Kamala Harris back in November, she described Trump as âa convicted felon, a known slumlordâ and a âpredator found liable for sexual abuse.âShe did attend his first inauguration back in 2020 but said on her podcast in 2023 how unpleasant it had been âto sit on that stage and watch the opposite of what we represented on display â there was no diversity, there was no color on that stage, there was no reflection of the broader sense of Americaâ. Obama also said she âcried for 30 minutes straightâ after the inauguration.Yet journalists and pundits have mused over whether her absence is a sign of internal fissures. Some say they have been hearing whispers for months, including blogger Meghan McCain and Tara Palmeri, Puck Newsâs senior political correspondent. Discussing the story on a podcast together, McCain said that she had been hearing the rumour from âvery serious journalistsâ. Palmeri agreed: âI just heard that they live separate lives.â
Incidentally, Meghan McCain is the daughter of Republican senator John McCain, who Obama defeated in the 2008 presidential election. She was not willing to name any of the âreputable peopleâ she had heard the rumours from.
As if to set the record straight, Barack Obama shared a heartfelt post to Instagram on Michelleâs birthday on January 17th. âHappy birthday to the love of my life,â the caption read. âYou fill every room with warmth, wisdom, humor, and grace â and you look good doing it. Iâm so lucky to be able to take on lifeâs adventures with you. Love you!â
Yet sceptics like Meghan McCain were unconvinced. âI would kill Ben if he put a picture of me looking like no makeup with that lighting on social media,â McCain said, referring to her husband, Ben Domenech. âI would kill him. So for me it didnât help the rumors, and like why are you putting this like s***ty picture of your wife up?â
So, the evidence for a marriage on the rocks goes something like this: Michelle Obama skips inauguration of man she detests and husband uploads purportedly unflattering picture of her for birthday. Hardly a smoking gun.Just in case that wasnât enough, a crackpot cover story from In Touch magazine is back in the headlines, which claimed to know âThe truth about Jen & Barackâ. That is, Jennifer Aniston of Friends fame. âTheyâre obsessed with each other!â claimed one highly reputably anonymous source from âpower circles in Washington and Hollywoodâ.
Aniston addressed the story back in October during an appearance on chat show host Jimmy Kimmelâs show. âOf all the calls you get from your publicist where you're just like âOh, no, what's it gonna be?â or you get an email saying some cheesy tabloid is gonna make up a story â and then it's thatâŚI was not mad at it!â she laughed, before clarifying that the story is âabsolutely untrueâ and she has only met Obama once.
Aside from heard-it-through-the-grapevine chitter chatter, thereâs little to suggest that Americaâs favourite couple are on the rocks. It appears that the rumours are just that.